In the past, I’ve bought lottery tickets thinking if I just could win even a million dollars I would finally have enough – I can finally do whatever I want and that means I can finally feel successful and be happy! (Or maybe that’s I’ll finally be enough). I was living my life backwards! This is called Have – Do – Be… Which means that I was waiting on the world, circumstances or even others to make me happy.

Creating financial well being is not a place that I can ever “get to”… it’s a place, a state of Being -where I come from. This huge shift takes a lot of courage to make because it makes me 100% responsible for my own happiness. This is called Be – Do – Have, which is actually great news! Because even though I can no longer blame anyone for my problems – it also means that no one can take my happiness away, because it’s who I am Being. Happiness is the way, not the destination.

So, who am I Being when I believe that “I need money?” I am someone that is worried, rushed, freaking out about an imagined future, or wallowing in guilt and regret of the past. I am anxious, frustrated, missing obvious solutions, stuck in my victim story of “not enough” (and the real reason this hurts so much is because it’s a lie to my Soul, I am not powerless). There is not enough is how I am viewing the world - lack is what I am looking for. Can you imagine how these thoughts are working for me?

What if I did not need money and I just starting making money instead? What if instead of fearing that I need money to survive – I turned it into a game of giving the most value to another in exchange for pieces of paper with numbers and pictures of dead guys  on it? In reality (not in an imaginary shameful past or in an anxious future) making money is matter of giving someone value (solving a problem) and they give you money for it. Now I am Being the fearless creator of my life in service and joy.

If you would like to find out how to get to the root cause of creating your financial well being and security, join Justin Rohner and me for the Mind 4 Money – How to Create Both More Money and Meaning. On Fearless Friday, Nov. 13th at The Downtown Sheraton from 1-5 pm registration starts at 12:30. Register at www.ThriveInUtah.com or at the door. Tickets are only $55 and if you don’t get at least 5 times your value we will refund it.

Join us and start Your revolution in personal finance and self reliance.

P.S. Come and find out why Justin’s coaching clients gladly pay him $50,000 a year to coach with him. This workshop will rock your financial mindset!

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